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The Power of Empathy: Why Telling People to 'Calm Down" Isn't Always Helpful'

In moments of stress or heightened emotions, it is common for people to be told to "calm down." While the intention behind this phrase may be well-meaning, it is essential to recognize that telling someone to calm down is not always the most effective or empathetic response. In this article, we will explore why offering support, understanding, and validation can be more beneficial in helping individuals navigate their emotions. Fractal Flowers Art by Charisse Van Horn 1. Invalidating Feelings When we tell someone to calm down, we unintentionally invalidate their emotions. Each person's experience and perception of a situation are unique, and their feelings are valid. Dismissing their emotions by telling them to calm down can make them feel unheard and misunderstood, potentially exacerbating their distress. It's important to let people know that their feelings are valid, whatever they may be. It's also important that the people in your life understand t...

Ten Fractal Tarot Spreads

These tarot spreads highlight the beauty of fractals rather than fractal flowers (you may find ten fractal flower tarot spreads here) . The tarot spreads below highlight areas in your life that may be repeating or blocking you from reaching your full potential. Why a Fractal Tarot Spread is Beneficial Tarot spreads come in a variety of shapes and sizes, each offering its own unique benefits and insights. One such spread that has gained popularity among tarot enthusiasts is the Fractal Tarot Spread. This intricate and visually captivating spread offers several advantages that can enhance your tarot practice. Here are a few reasons why a Fractal Tarot Spread is beneficial. 1. Deeper Exploration The Fractal Tarot Spread allows for a deeper exploration of the cards and their meanings. The fractal pattern, with its repeating and self-similar shapes, encourages you to delve into the layers of symbolism within each card. As you move from the central card to the outer cards, you can uncover hi...

You Have the Power to Manifest Miracles Through Faith

Today's message is very exciting and it speaks to the power that you have to create the future you desire.  The first card is Bloom Like a Badass and it speaks to the power you have to reach your full potential. Our lives are a journey that we walk in different stages. It is your time to grow in wisdom to reach your full potential. As you bloom you are in your full essence and are at the best time in life to manifest your desires, goals, dreams, and visions. Card 1: Bloom Like a Badass Card 2: Expect a Miracle The next card tells you to expect a miracle, and it speaks about the importance of faith. Faith is not as complicated as some might think. For example, it is said to have faith in the unknown, but we also have many factual reasons to have faith. If you want to bake a cake, you have a recipe that if you follow correctly will produce the cake you want. You know through facts, logic, and time-tested proof that if you collect the right ingredients, follow the plan, an...

Ten Fractal Flowers Tarot Spreads

Tarot card readings have long been used as a tool for self-reflection, guidance, and gaining insight into various aspects of life. With countless tarot spreads available, each offering a unique perspective, these Fractal Flowers' tarot spreads stand out as a captivating and powerful option. Here are a few reasons why you should consider using this particular spread in your tarot practice. 1. Visual Beauty: Fractal Flowers' tarot spreads are visually stunning, resembling the intricate patterns found in nature. Each spread consists of a central card representing the core theme or question, surrounded by a series of cards arranged in a flower-like pattern. The aesthetic appeal of each spread adds an extra layer of enchantment to your tarot experience, making it a joy to work with. 2. Holistic Perspective: The flower-like arrangement of cards in the Fractal Flowers Tarot Spread allows for a holistic perspective on the topic at hand. Each card represents a different aspect or angle ...

Nature's Fractal Flowers: A Symphony of Mathematical Beauty (Photo Slideshow)

 In the realm of nature's breathtaking wonders, few creations captivate the human eye quite like the intricate and mesmerizing patterns found in flowers. From the delicate petals of a rose to the vibrant blooms of a sunflower, these botanical marvels exhibit a hidden mathematical secret known as fractals. Join us as we explore the enchanting world of nature's fractal flowers and unravel the mathematical beauty that lies within. Embed from Getty Images Understanding Fractals Fractals are complex geometric patterns that repeat infinitely at different scales, exhibiting self-similarity. In simpler terms, they are shapes that contain smaller versions of themselves, regardless of how much you zoom in or out. This concept was first introduced by mathematician Benoit Mandelbrot in the 1970s, revolutionizing our understanding of the natural world.  The Fibonacci Sequence One of the most famous examples of fractals in nature can be found in the arrangement of petals on flowers. Many...

Free Celtic Cross Tarot Reading: It's Time For A New Start, Bury The Past and Start Again

I did a Celtic Cross tarot reading and the message from Spirit is that it is time to make a new start by finally burying the past and keeping it there. Only then can you truly start again.  Too many times in life we leave a negative or toxic situation, don't deal with the issues that arise, and then start again. Sometimes we do this by refusing to look at past issues and heal them. Other times we numb the impact from past trauma by self-medicating ourselves but this only delays our healing. We may even convince ourselves that we have started again with a fresh beginning, yet all of the trauma, pain, and issues from the past are simply buried. This is unhealthy because nothing can stay buried forever and these issues will always resurface in one form or another. Here is the free tarot reading. Card 1 Three of Cups: Defines the Question  When I do a reading for the collective, I keep my questions very general. For this reading, I asked Spirit what Spirit wants us to know. My pro...

Free Timeless Oracle and Tarot Reading: You Will Reap What You Sow so Sow Seeds of Love

I gave a free tarot and oracle reading on my YouTube channel on Tuesday, December 5, 2023, and the reading had several surprises. First, the message that Spirit unfolded was a beautiful reminder that we will reap what we sow, therefore, we should be very careful about the things we think, say, and do. The reading had themes of prayer, karma, and walking in love and there was a bonus, surprise card that showed up at the end. As I came to the end of the reading, I went over the cards and as I held the first card "Pray Always" a second card fell out from behind it! That card became the final one in the reading. You may see the full video of the reading in the video player below. Card 1: Pray Always The first card in the reading is Pray Always. It is from the Bible verse Luke 21:36 that says, "Watch ye therefore, and pray always, that ye may be accounted worthy to escape all these things that shall come to pass, and to stand before the Son of man." (KJV)  Th...

Free Timeless Reading: Heaven's Door Leads to Higher Thought

I pulled several cards today and this free, timeless reading is a beautiful message of God's love. I used the deck Oracle of the Angels and I must say how much I am enjoying Mario Duguay's decks. On Fractal Flowers, I love all things fractals. Flowers are natural fractals and I love decks that highlight fractals, sacred geometry, mandalas, and numerology. These decks are filled with images of love and light, heaven, and angels, and as you can see, there is a gorgeous crystal, fractal sphere on the cover of the Messages of Life deck. Photo by Fractal Flowers Charisse Van Horn There is a neat little backstory to the Heaven's Door message. If you follow my YouTube channel, you will see that I am uploading a lot of singing videos. I do apologize for my poor singing, but hey, no one has to listen, right? Anyway, I have always had difficulty singing and speaking. It wasn't until I was diagnosed with my son in 2019 with having hypermobile Ehlers-Danlos syndrome that things sta...

The Power of Forgiveness: A Path to Self-Awareness and Emotional Intelligence

In the journey of self-discovery and personal growth, forgiveness plays a pivotal role. It is not only about forgiving others but also about forgiving ourselves. In this article, we will explore the profound importance of forgiveness as a tool for developing self-awareness and emotional intelligence. By understanding the power of forgiveness, we can unlock a deeper level of compassion, empathy, and personal growth.  Affirmation: I Am Able to Forgive Myself and Others (Right Click for Loop-Mode) Free Affirmation Card (Right Click to Save to Your Device) Understanding Forgiveness Forgiveness is a conscious choice to release feelings of anger, resentment, and blame towards oneself or others. It is not about condoning or forgetting the actions that caused pain, but rather about freeing ourselves from the emotional burden that holds us back. Forgiveness is a transformative process that allows us to let go of negative emotions and move forward with clarity and peace.  F...